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Supporting someone with a mental health condition: A wellbeing guide for carers
Learn practical ways to take care of your wellbeing while supporting someone you care about.
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Practical support and wellbeing tips for carers
When someone you care about is living with a mental health condition, it’s natural to feel a mix of emotions like love, hope, worry, exhaustion, grief, and even resentment. Caring for someone can bring deep meaning. It can also bring real challenges.
You might not have planned to become a carer. You might not even call yourself one. But if you’re currently offering regular practical or emotional support to someone, you're in a caring role and what you offer matters.
When caring for someone else, it’s easy to put your own needs aside. You might catch yourself thinking, 'It's not about me' or 'I'll take care of myself later.' But your wellbeing matters just as much. Understanding your own needs and giving yourself permission to meet them is part of caring in a sustainable, compassionate way, for both you and the person you support.
In this guide, you’ll find information on:
- Strategies for managing stress and overwhelm
- Tips for reaching out for support
- Understanding your rights as a carer
- Tools, apps and support services for carers.
Scroll down to learn more.
What does it mean to be a carer?
Being a carer doesn’t always mean providing round-the-clock help. It can look different for everyone, and it often changes over time.
Caring can look like:
- Sitting with the person you care about when they’re struggling to get out of bed
- Checking in with a simple text to remind them they’re not alone
- Helping with meals, appointments, medications, or daily routine
- Learning more about what they’re experiencing, so you can walk alongside them, not ahead, not behind
- Encouraging them to leave the house when anxiety or panic makes it feel impossible
- Offering steady support when they feel overwhelmed, stuck, or isolated
- Helping them stick to a treatment plan, or gently encouraging them to seek professional support
- Walking beside them as they navigate recovery from substance misuse challenges.
However your role looks today, it’s important to recognise that what you’re offering matters.
Strategies for managing stress and overwhelm
When caring for others, it's completely natural to feel stressed at times, especially when you’re carrying a lot of responsibility or facing uncertainty about how to best help.
Stress doesn't always look like panic. It might feel like tiredness that won't lift, feeling on edge, snapping more easily, or finding it hard to focus.
Having simple strategies you can turn to when stress builds up can make a real difference. They can help you stay grounded, steady, and better able to care for both the person you support and yourself.
Here are a few techniques you can try:
Having simple ways to manage stress and overwhelm can make a real difference, helping you feel more grounded and in control, even on tough days.
Tips for reaching out for support
Caring can feel isolating at times, which is why it's important to lean on others for support.
It’s really common to feel unsure about what to say when you reach out for help, whether it’s to a service, a support group, or someone you trust.
Remember:
- You don’t have to have the perfect words.
- It’s okay to feel emotional, nervous, or unsure.
- You only need to share as much as you feel comfortable with.
- The person you’re speaking to is there to listen and support you without judgement.
- There’s no ‘wrong’ way to ask for help.
You just have to take the first step. Just reaching out is a huge and important step and one you can be proud of. Continue reading for more tips you can use to reach out for support.
Lean on a support network
A support network is simply the people, services, and connections you can lean on when you need encouragement, advice, or a break. It might include trusted family members, friends, neighbours, workmates, carer groups, or professional support services.
You might already have a network around you or you might be building one from scratch, and that’s okay too. Here are some ways you can start building or reaching out to your support network:
Learn about mental health and build practical carer skills
It’s common to feel unsure or overwhelmed when someone you care about is living with a mental health condition.
Understanding a little more about what they’re experiencing can help you feel more confident, connected, and better equipped to support them while also protecting your own wellbeing.
Here are some things you can do right now:
The more you understand, the more confident and empowered you’ll feel to walk alongside the person you care about.
Finding balance in how you care
When you care deeply about someone, it’s natural to want to be there for them as much as you can. But caring for someone doesn’t mean saying yes to everything, or giving more than you have to give.
Setting healthy boundaries is a way of protecting your own wellbeing, so you can continue to offer care with patience, compassion, and strength over time.
Boundaries aren’t about pulling away from the person you care about. They’re about finding a balance between their needs and your own, so you can both stay connected in a healthy, sustainable way.
Here are a few ways to find balance in how you care:
Finding balance is a journey, not a one-time decision.
Some days you’ll feel more available, and other days you’ll need to protect your space more carefully. Both are part of caring with compassion.
Self-care as a carer
Caring for someone can be physically tiring and emotionally heavy. Without small moments of care for yourself, it's easy to feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or chronically stressed.
Self-care helps you recharge, so you have the energy and strength to keep supporting the person you care about while looking after yourself too.
You don’t need to do anything big or fancy. Here are some simple ways you can care for yourself every day:
- Eat and move regularly: Caring for someone else takes emotional and physical energy. Keeping your body fuelled and moving a little each day can help lift your mood, sharpen your focus, and build the stamina you need to keep going. Even small amounts of movement, like stretching at home or walking around the block, can help clear your mind and give you a boost of energy.
- Prioritise rest and protect your sleep: Giving your body enough time to rest and reset is one of the most powerful ways to care for your wellbeing. Sleep helps regulate your emotions, strengthens your immune system, and gives your brain time to process the day. Short rest breaks during the day, even just sitting quietly, can also help recharge your energy. Click here to learn more about why sleep matters for mental health and tips for improving yours.
- Make time for small things you enjoy: Doing things you love, even for a few minutes, can reduce stress, boost your mood, and remind you that your life matters too. It might be listening to music, drawing, reading, gardening, or watching a favourite show. Enjoyable moments help build resilience and can make it easier to cope on a tough day.
Click here to learn more about self-care for mental health and wellbeing.
Your rights as a carer
When you’re caring for someone living with a mental health condition, it’s easy to feel like the responsibility falls heavily on you.
You may find yourself navigating health services, advocating for support, or making decisions without always having access to the information you need. It can be challenging, especially when you're trying to balance respect for the person's privacy with your own need for support and inclusion.
Recognising your rights as a carer is part of protecting your wellbeing and helping you advocate more confidently.
While health professionals must respect patient confidentiality, they can still provide general information about mental health conditions, treatments, and how you can offer support.
In some cases, the person you are caring for may need to give consent for detailed information to be shared with you.
If you feel shut out of important conversations, it's okay to ask:
- 'How can I best support [their name] through their treatment?'
- 'What should I watch for if I’m concerned about their wellbeing?'
- 'Are there services or resources you can suggest for me as a carer?'
Remember, you don’t have to navigate these conversations alone. Support services like Carer Gateway and SANE can help.
Resources for carers
There are tools, apps, and services designed to support you in your caring role and to help you look after your own wellbeing too.
Here are some resources you might find helpful, whenever you’re ready to explore them.
Tools and apps
Support services
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Carer Gateway
Carer Gateway aims to make your life easier by providing emotional, practical and financial support for carers. Provides free counselling, information, peer support, emergency respite care, and financial help to carers via phone, online, and in-person services.
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Search for more services
Use Lifeline's Service Finder to search for more local and national services available to help support you.
Looking after your own wellbeing is what allows you to keep showing up with patience, compassion, and strength, without losing sight of yourself along the way.
When you care for yourself, you’re not stepping away from the person you support; you’re building the resilience you both need for the road ahead.