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Men’s Referral Service

Men’s Referral Service is a free and confidential 24/7 counselling, information, and referral service for men using violence and abuse in their relationships.
Cost Free
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Men's referral service – Support services

What they do

Men’s Referral Service is a free and confidential 24/7 counselling, information, and referral service for men using violence and abuse in their relationships and are looking for ways to change their behaviour.

When you contact Men’s Referral Service, your call or chat will be answered by someone trained to:

  • Respect your anonymity
  • Listen to you
  • Offer support and short-term strategies
  • Provide referrals to local services to help you take the next steps in your journey.

Who they're for

Men’s Referral Service can help:

  • Men who use violence and abuse in their relationships and are looking for ways to change their behaviour
  • Anyone looking for ways to support a man trying to change his behaviour
  • Professionals working with men who are using violence or family members impacted by violence
  • Anyone impacted by a man’s use of violent behaviour.

How to contact

You can connect with the Men’s Referral Service 24 hours a day, 7 days a week via:


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